About Kismet Mental Health & Wellness
What is Kismet?
Carrie here - I wanted to create this page to share some history behind Kismet and to clarify my application of the word itself - for those who might be interested.
My hope is that by sharing some history and giving clarification, you will have an even better understanding of what guides Kismet Mental Health & Wellness and our commitment to helping others.
Please note: personal details are shared for context and to help you understand the perspective of Kismet Mental Health & Wellness. Therapists are not used to sharing personal details, but I am willing to be a bit vulnerable if it can help others. All this to say, I truly want everyone's 'take-away' from this page to be self-reflective in their own journey to discovering their Kismet
A Little History of the Word "Kismet"
Now that you know where the word originated, let's dive into
Why Kismet??
Story Time
There was once a girl who loved the outdoors, spending her childhood riding dirt bikes and climbing trees. Every summer, from a toddler through her teens, she could be found in the woods or on the water. Her family was lucky enough to have a boat, and she cherished her time on the water. One summer, she met a friend on that boat, and they instantly connected. Their bond grew so strong that their families became deeply intertwined. Over time, they became more than friends—they became sisters.
The girl grew older and learned many life lessons, some through difficult experiences. She faced struggles in dark times but also found moments of beauty. She and her sister were close until an event happened that deeply affected their relationship. This event was life changing - forcing her to reevaluate her goals and future. It also led to a long period of silence between her and her sister - filled with immense hurt, pain, and guilt. But during this time the girl continued her journey, striving to find her way back to a brighter path.
With the support of family, friends, and friends who became family, she began to rediscover herself. Though the journey wasn’t easy, and darkness still lingered, the girl pushed through and finished college. During this time, she adopted a puppy who became a constant source of comfort and joy; offering unconditional love and companionship. The puppy not only helped her heal emotionally but also gave her a renewed sense of purpose. Inspired by her own journey, she decided to get her Masters degree and become a counselor to support others the way she had been supported. Along the way, she also took steps to rebuild and heal the relationship with her sister.
The girl, now a therapist, was finally feeling like she found her purpose: To help others. She was also learning how to enjoy life again! She decided to start her own therapy practice to create something meaningful for others and to give back for all that she has received herself.
The girl knew that she wanted her business to have meaning - so the name was important. She made a list of words that she felt represented why she became a therapist - as a constant reminder to her, of her history and all she overcame. Fate was one of those words.
But the girl thought, "I can't name my business fate. That doesn't feel right." So she brainstormed other words that have similar meanings. And yup! You guessed it. She found "kismet". But remember those beloved summers on the girl's boat where she met her sister and the life-changing event that happened between them? Well, something that wasn't shared earlier is that the boat was named Kismet.
And then it clicked - she realized she was exactly where she was meant to be. She understood that without her journey's darkest moments, followed by healing and transformation, she never would have truly discovered herself. If the boat Kismet hadn’t brought her to her sister and eventually the event that separated them, she wouldn’t have had the experiences which ultimately shaped her mission. It was clear that every step, even the painful ones, had guided her to discover her own Kismet.
The moral of the story is that you never know which moments in life can lead to growth, connection, and self-discovery. By embracing the journey - both the beautiful and the challenging - we can find purpose, healing, and a deeper connection to ourselves and others.
To me, Kismet isn’t about predestination but rather a destination and a state of being. It’s being curiously wary toward what feels uncertain while remaining open to harmony and acceptance. The hardships you’ve faced (or are facing) don’t mean you deserve or have to endure alone; by aligning what has happened with where you’re meant to be, you can discover your Kismet.